“How are you preparing your heart? Before you are ready for the right relationship your heart needs to be in the right place and you need to have a good relationship with God. I know it’s a lot easier to just rush into a relationship, but God is preparing you and preparing your future husband! I say “future husband” because you should be dating with the intention of marriage. I promise the wait will be worth it!

As I was waiting, all of my friends around me had boyfriends and rushed into things, but I decided to work on my heart and focus on my time with God, and He defiantly rewarded me for that! I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years, it’s been such a cool adventure and an awesome journey! 


During the time of waiting, just focus on yourself and focus on your relationship with God, and when you do start dating, make sure to put God at the center of your relationship and still continue to keep God as the “number one” in your life. You also should be growing together spiritually, that may look like doing a Bible study together, serving in ministry together, or starting a small group!

Just make sure you are focusing on your walk with God and working on your heart! These are just some things that I have learned and hope you will take into consideration as you begin or continue to date!”